Our environment, family and friends will push us to use the self destruction or the self loving. When we choose self destruction, it leads us to a low self esteem and depression. It is a direction we take as we choose all the things that make us unhappy (films, relationships, books...), and we’re ok with it because of low self esteem, we think we are not worth being loved. This idea is reinforced by people, or by a belief system. Some people will put us down to feel comfortable; some are aggressive because they want to take our power.
At some point we need to realise that we are worth being loved. It is a tough challenge, and we need to build a spiritual path with a strong foundation. When we’re not respecting our self, when we are not using life affirming ideas, we are losing contact with our self and we remain on a superficial level of intimacy.
Intimacy is the way I see myself in truth, it is a deep and honest view of who I am, and being honest is not easy, sometimes, but if we aren’t then we lose touch with our truth. It is a decision, there is no magic. Small incremental decisions every day will help us to stay on a life affirming path. And to be able to do that, we need think about the exception. If we live in a cloud, there will always be one day of light. When we think of that particular day, we go there and we stay for a moment that is how we open a window. When we choose life affirming energy, we find the seed that will help us to start something we think is impossible.
Le'ts activate our free will and we will discover our own spiritual path.
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